Having just finished a nightmare project that took over 4 months to complete, I thought it would be appropriate to dedicate this blog post to those who want to try something new, or re-try something that they did not succeed at the first time.
This project was mainly a nightmare because it was a totally new type of project that I never attempted before.
While buying the last few materials I needed for this project, I came across a bargain book bin. In it, I found the sequel to Friday Night Knitting Club by Kate Jacobs, titled Knit Two. I enjoyed the first book, so getting the sequel in hardcover for $5.00 was a deal I could not pass up.
I started reading it last night, and found the page right before the first chapter to be particularly relevant. If you take anything away from this post, I hope it is this:
"When you're new to something-or you haven't tried it in a while- it can feel impossibly hard to get it right. Every misstep feels like a reason to quit. You envy everyone else who seems to know what they're doing. What keeps you going? The belief that one day you'll also be like that: Elegant. Capable. Confident. Experienced. And you can be. All you need now is enthusiasm. A little bravery. And-always-a sense of humor."
-Knit Two, Kate Jacobs
This quote not only put my experience with a new type of project in perspective, but also it ironically reminded me of my first knitting experience.
I decided to start knitting in 2005. I bought my first knitting kit to make what I thought would be a simple red scarf. I wish I would have known about You Tube tutorials back then.
To say I was frustrated with my first attempt to knit would be an understatement. I wanted to give up on that scarf multiple times, but I continued on, with cramped hands and crankiness from lack of sleep. Eventually I finished that red scarf. I wore that poor excuse for a scarf with its dropped stitches, inconsistently sized stitches and random knots proudly.
Why you may ask? Because, there was a story that went with that scarf- it was my first completed knitting project. I guess you could say I probably felt the same way that a child feels when they make their first art project. Wearing it was like "putting it up on the refrigerator" for everyone to see.
Even though I was down on myself because the scarf did not look like the picture that came with the kit, I found comfort in the fact that my then boyfriend (now husband) told me that he thought I would be able to knit better the more I practiced. He believed in me. He did not think that scarf was so tragic that I should never pick up another set of knitting needles again. So I did practice- A LOT. I even took some classes. Now I knit more than scarves.
I do go through knitting droughts where I get so frustrated with a project that I hide it in my closet I find the ambition to tackle that pattern again.
As it turns out I not only learned how to knit, but I learned more about myself. I learned about patience and the value of NOT multitasking for once. I learned that having motivation, ambition and practicing something you want to succeed at is essential.
In the end these projects are worth it because each project I work on is for people (or inspired by people) that I hold close to my heart.
Sometimes I think that the people who receive these projects as gifts are willing to overlook those imperfections. I like to think it is because it is made by hand with love.
So, I encourage you to try something new, or attempt something that you were not successful at before. As Kate Jacobs writes, “All you need now is enthusiasm. A little bravery. And-always-a sense of humor.”
You may find yourself “knitting” much more than a “scarf”- and here is one of my first projects that was not a scarf:
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| It probably took me 6-9 months to finish this set because I had to stop, restart, and stop so many times. It was completed in 2007. I was just happy to be able to make more than a scarf! |





